40 women online dating
Meeting people and weeding out is a process that is necessary on the way to finding the one, but maintaining that optimistic attitude while you’re at it definitely takes self-monitoring and vigilance.
Unfortunately, not everyone on these sites are mentally stable.
In the past, even with online dating, getting offline was much faster and smoother.
Now, there is endless texting, the initial meeting might never occur, and when it does, no one wants to waste their time on a real date. I feel like everyone (myself included) has become emotionally unavailable and unwilling to take the time to get to know each other.
It’s frustrating to never hearing from a man again after a date, especially if you’ve made tentative plans to meet again.
As a result of this happening, if I know I’m not planning on seeing someone again, I am honest and send a message. Also, when someone persistently contacts me and there is no interest on my part, I send a kind email wishing him well.